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"you are who you choose to be."
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So, in my previous blog, someone has mentioned their opinion stating: "you are who you choose to be". And while I do agree, I only agree to a degree. I think you decide what you do, and how you do it (and that's a part of who you are), but you sexual orientation, you don't choose. You don't wake up one day and be like "oh I'm gonna love this person" or decide to be gay. You can't choose who you love. When you find the person who you want to be with in life, then you fall in love, you can't choose their gender and you can't choose who you are. That's just what life planned out for you. And if you are gay then, well that's great. Who cares? If people don't accept you anyways, you don't need them in your life. Really the only thing that matters is that you're okay with who you are.
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Can you change who you are? No. Everything that you do, or did makes you who you are. You can be a re-formed person though. Although, peple change for the better, they don't completely change, they willl aways be who they truly are, whether it is a bad thing or a good thing. Being gay, it is a part of you, something you can't change. Brooke Davis once said: "People can't change. At the end of the day, you are who you are and that's probably who you've always been."
« vous êtes qui vous choisissez d'être. »
Automatically translated into French thanks to WorldLingo
Ainsi, dans mon blog précédent, quelqu'un a mentionné leur énoncé d'opinion : « vous êtes qui vous choisissez d'être ». Et tandis que je conviens, je suis seulement d'accord sur un degré. Je pense que vous décidez ce que vous faites, et comment vous faites lui (et cela est une partie de qui vous êtes), mais vous orientation sexuelle, vous ne choisissez pas. Vous ne réveillez pas un jour et être comme le « OH je vais aimer cette personne » ou décider d'être gai. Vous ne pouvez pas choisir qui vous aimez. Quand vous trouvez la personne que vous voulez pour être avec dans la vie, puis vous chute dans l'amour, vous ne pouvez pas choisir leur genre et vous ne pouvez pas choisir qui vous êtes. C'est au juste quelle vie a projeté dehors pour toi. Et si vous êtes gai alors, bien c'est grand. Qui s'inquiète ? Si les gens ne vous acceptent pas de toute façon, vous n'avez pas besoin de eux dans votre vie. Vraiment la seule chose qui importe est que vous êtes bien avec qui vous êtes.
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Pouvez-vous changer qui vous êtes ? Non. Tout que vous, ou des marques vous qui vous êtes. Vous pouvez être une personne reformée cependant. Bien que, le changement de peple pour le meilleur, ils ne changent pas complètement, ils des aways de willl soient qui ils sont vraiment, si c'est une mauvaise chose ou une bonne chose. Étant gai, c'est une partie de toi, quelque chose que vous ne pouvez pas changer. Brooke Davis une fois dit : Les « gens ne peuvent pas changer. À la fin du jour, vous êtes qui vous êtes et c'est probablement qui vous avez toujours été. «
“usted es quiénes usted elige ser.”
Automatically translated into Spanish thanks to WorldLingo
Así pues, en mi blog anterior, alguien ha mencionado su indicación de la opinión: “usted es quiénes usted elige ser”. Y mientras que convengo, convengo solamente un grado. Pienso que usted decide lo que usted hace, y cómo usted hace lo (y ése es una parte de quiénes usted es), pero usted orientación sexual, usted no elige. Usted no despierta un día y ser como el “oh voy a amar a esta persona” o a decidir ser gay. Usted no puede elegir quién usted ama. Cuando usted encuentra a persona a que usted desea para estar con en vida, entonces usted caída en el amor, usted no puede elegir su género y usted no puede elegir quiénes usted es. Eso es justo qué vida planeó hacia fuera para usted. Y si usted entonces es gay, eso es bien grande. ¿Quién cuida? Si la gente no le acepta de todos modos, usted no la necesita en su vida. Realmente la única cosa que importa es que usted es aceptable con quiénes usted es.
Corrija:
¿Puede usted cambiar quiénes usted es? No. Todo que usted lo hace, o las marcas usted que usted es. Usted puede ser una persona reformada sin embargo. Aunque, el cambio del peple para el mejor, ellos no cambia totalmente, los aways del willl sean quiénes son verdad, si es una mala cosa o una buena cosa. Siendo gay, es una parte de usted, algo que usted no puede cambiar. Brooke Davis dicho una vez: La “gente no puede cambiar. En el final del día, usted está quiénes usted está y ése es probablemente quiénes usted ha sido siempre. “
“siete chi scegliete essere.„
Automatically translated into Italian thanks to WorldLingo
Così, nel mio blog precedente, qualcuno ha accennato loro dichiarare di opinione: “siete chi scegliete essere„. E mentre accosento, accosento soltanto ad un grado. Penso che decidiate che cosa fate e come fate esso (e quello è una parte di chi siete), ma orientamento sessuale, voi non scegliete. Non svegliate un giorno ed essere come “l'OH sto andando amare questa persona„ o decidere essere gay. Non potete scegliere chi amate. Quando trovate la persona che desiderate per essere con in vita, allora caduta nell'amore, voi non potete scegliere il loro genere e non potete scegliere chi siete. Quello è giusto che vita ha progettato fuori per voi. E se allora siete gay, quello è bene grande. Chi si preoccupa? Se la gente non li accetta comunque, non le avete bisogno di nella vostra vita. Realmente l'unica cosa che importa è che siete giusti con chi siete.
Pubblichi:
Potete cambiare chi siete? No. Tutto che, o marche voi che siete. Potete essere una persona riformata comunque. Anche se, il cambiamento del peple per il migliore, completamente non cambia, aways del willl sono chi allineare sono, se è una cosa difettosa o una buona cosa. Essendo gay, è una parte di voi, qualcosa che non possiate cambiare. Brooke Davis detto una volta: “La gente non può cambiare. Alla conclusione del giorno, siete chi siete e quello è probabilmente chi siete stati sempre. “
„Sie sind, wer Sie beschließen, zu sein.“
Automatically translated into German thanks to WorldLingo
So in meinem vorhergehenden blog, hat jemand ihr Meinung Angeben erwähnt: „Sie sind, wer Sie beschließen, zu sein“. Und während ich zustimme, stimme ich nur einem Grad zu. Ich denke, daß Sie entscheiden, was Sie tun und wie Sie es tun (und das ist ein Teil von, wem Sie sind), aber Sie sexuelle Lagebestimmung, Sie wählen nicht. Sie wachen nicht einen Tag auf und wie „OH- werde ich zu sein diese Person lieben“ oder entscheiden, homosexuell zu sein. Sie können nicht wählen, wem Sie lieben. Wenn Sie die Person finden, die Sie mit im Leben sein wünschen, dann können Sie Fall in Liebe, Sie nicht ihr Geschlecht wählen und Sie können nicht wählen, wem Sie sind. Das ist gerecht, welches Leben heraus für Sie plante. Und wenn Sie dann homosexuell sind, gut ist das groß. Wer interessiert sich? Wenn Leute Sie nicht irgendwie annehmen, benötigen Sie sie nicht in Ihrem Leben. Wirklich ist die einzige Sache, die ausmacht, daß Sie okay sind mit, wem Sie sind.
Redigieren Sie:
Können Sie ändern, wem Sie sind? Nein. Alles, das Sie oder Marken Sie, das Sie sind. Sie können eine verbesserte Person zwar sein. Obgleich, peple änderung für das bessere, sie nicht vollständig ändern, sind sie willl aways, wer sie wirklich sind, ob es eine schlechte Sache oder eine gute Sache ist. Seiend homosexuell, ist es ein Teil von Ihnen, etwas, das Sie nicht ändern können. Brooke Davis einmal gesagt: „Leute können nicht ändern. Am Ende des Tages, sind Sie, wer Sie sind und das vermutlich ist, wer Sie immer gewesen sind. „
“você é quem você escolhe ser.”
Automatically translated into Portuguese thanks to WorldLingo
Assim, em meu blog precedente, alguém mencionou seu indicar da opinião: “você é quem você escolhe ser”. E quando eu concordar, eu concordo somente a um grau. Eu penso que você se decide o que você faz, e como você faz o (e aquele é uma parte de quem você é), mas você orientação sexual, você não escolhe. Você não acorda um dia e para ser como o “oh eu estou indo amar esta pessoa” ou decidir-se ser gay. Você não pode escolher quem você ama. Quando você encontra a pessoa que você quer ser com em vida, então você queda no amor, você não pode escolher seu gender e você não pode escolher quem você é. Isso é justo que vida planeou para fora para você. E se você for gay então, bem isso é grande. Quem se importa? Se os povos não o aceitarem de qualquer maneira, você não os necessita em sua vida. Realmente a única coisa que importa é que você é aprovado com quem você é.
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Pode você mudar quem você é? Não. Tudo que você, ou makes você que você é. Você pode ser uma pessoa reformada though. Embora, a mudança do peple para o melhor, eles não mude completamente, aways do willl sejam quem são verdadeiramente, se é uma coisa má ou uma coisa boa. Sendo gay, é uma parte de você, algo que você não pode mudar. Brooke Davis disse uma vez: Os “povos não podem mudar. No fim do dia, você está quem você está e aquele é provavelmente quem você foi sempre. “
”är du vem du väljer att vara.”,
Automatically translated into Swedish thanks to WorldLingo
Så i min föregående blog, har någon nämnt deras påstå för åsikt: ”är du vem du väljer att vara”. Och stunder som jag instämm, mig, instämm endast till en grad. Funderare I avgör du vad du gör, och hur du gör den (och det är en del av vem du är), men du den sexuella riktningen, dig väljer inte. Du vaknar inte upp en dag och är något liknande ”förmiddagen för oh som I går att älska denna person” eller att avgöra att vara glad. Du kan inte välja vem du älskar. När du finner personen som du önskar att ska vara med i liv, därefter kan du den förälskade nedgången, dig inte välja deras genus, och du kan inte välja vem du är. Det är rättvis vilket liv planerade ut för dig. Och om du är glad därefter, väl är det stor. Att bry sig vem? Om folket inte accepterar dig på vilket sätt som helst, behöver du inte dem i ditt liv. Egentligen är det enda tinget, som betyder, att du är ok med vem du är.
Redigera:
Kan du ändra vem du är? Nr. Allt, som du, eller makes dig som du är. Du kan vara en omdanad person though. Även om pepleändring för det bättre, dem inte ändrar fullständigt, är de willlaways vem de är riktigt, huruvida det är ett dåligating eller ett bra ting. Vara glatt, är det en del av dig, något som du inte kan ändra. Brooke Davis sade en gång: ”Kan folket inte ändra. På avsluta av dagen är du vem du är och det är antagligen vem du har alltid varit. ”,
«вы вы выбираете быть.»
Automatically translated into Russian thanks to WorldLingo
Так, в моем ранее blog, кто-то упоминало их заявлять мнения: «вы вы выбираете быть». И пока я соглашаюсь, я только согласовываю STEPENь. Я думаю вы решает вы делаете, и как вы делаете его (и то часть вы), но вы сексуальная ориентация, вы не выбираете. Вы wake up один день и быть как «oh я иду полюбить эту персону» или решить быть gay. Вы не можете выбрать вы любите. Когда вы находите персону вы хотите для того чтобы быть с в жизнью, после этого вы падение в влюбленность, вас не можете выбрать их gender и вы не можете выбрать вы. То справедливо что жизнь запланировала вне для вас. И если вы gay после этого, то, наилучшим образом то больш. Заботит? Если люди не принимают вас так или иначе, то вам не нужны они в вашей жизни. Реально единственная вещь имеет значение что вы одобренн с вы.
Редактируйте:
Можете вы изменить вы? Нет. Все вы делаете, или сделало модели вы которые вы. Вы можете быть реформированной персоной однако. Хотя, изменение peple для лучшего, они вполне не изменяет, они aways willl они поистине, будет ли плохой вещью или хорошей вещью. Был gay, будет частью вас, что-то, котор вы не можете изменить. Brooke раз, котор говорят Davis: «Люди не могут изменить. На конце дня, вы вы и то вероятно вы всегда. «
„u bent wie u om verkiest te zijn.“
Automatically translated into Dutch thanks to WorldLingo
Zo, in mijn vorige blog, heeft iemand hun advies verklarend vermeld: „u bent wie u om verkiest te zijn“. En terwijl ik akkoord ga, ga ik slechts met een graad akkoord. Ik denk u beslist wat u, en hoe u het doet (en dat is een deel van wie u) bent, maar u seksuele richtlijn, u kiest niet. U wekt één dag niet en bent als „oh ik van deze persoon“ ga houden of vrolijk beslissen te zijn. U kunt niet kiezen van wie u houdt. Wanneer u de persoon vindt wie u met in het leven wilt zijn, dan valt u in liefde, kunt u niet hun geslacht kiezen en u kunt niet kiezen wie u bent. Dat is enkel wat het leven uit voor u plande. En als u dan vrolijk bent, goed is dat groot. Who zorgen? Als de mensen u niet anyways goedkeuren, hebt u hen niet in uw leven nodig. Werkelijk het enige ding dat van belang is is dat u o.k. bent met wie u bent.
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Kunt u wie u veranderen bent? Nr. Alles dat u, of deed maakt u die u bent. U kunt niettemin een opnieuw gevormde persoon zijn. Hoewel, peple verandering voor beter, zij niet volledig veranderen, zijn zij willl aways wie zij echt zijn, of het een slecht ding of een goede zaak is. Zijnd vrolijk, is het een deel van u, iets u niet kunt veranderen. Brooke Davis zodra bovengenoemd: De „mensen kunnen niet veranderen. Begin de dag, bent u wie u bent en dat is waarschijnlijk wie u altijd bent geweest. „
"أنت الذي أنت تختار أن يكون."
Automatically translated into Arabic thanks to WorldLingo
هكذا, في [بلوغ] ي سابقة, قد ذكر أحد ما هم رأي يفيد: "أنت الذي أنت تختار أن يكون". وبينما أنا أوافق, يوافق أنا فقط إلى درجة. أنا أفكّر يقرّر أنت ماذا أنت تتمّ, وكيف أنت تتمّ هو (وأنّ جزء من الذي أنت تكون), غير أنّ أنت توجيه جنسيّة, أنت لا تختار. أنت لا تفيق واحدة يوم وكنت مثل "[أه] يذهب أنا أن يحبّ هذا شخص" أو قرّرت أن يكون مرحة. أنت يستطيع لا يختار الذي أنت تحبّ. عندما يجد أنت الشخص الذي أنت تريد أن يكون مع في حياة, بعد ذلك أنت سقوط في حالة حبّ, أنت يستطيع لا يختار جنسهم وأنت يستطيع لا يختار الذي أنت تكون. أنّ صحيحة ما حياة خطّط خارجا ل أنت. وإن أنت تكون مرحة بعد ذلك, جيّدا أنّ عظيمة. الذي يهتمّ? إن الناس لا يقبلون أنت [أنوس], لا يحتاجهم أنت في حياتك. حقّا الشيء وحيد أنّ يهمّ أنّ أنت حسنة مع الذي أنت تكون.
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يستطيع أنت غيّرت الذي أنت تكون? رفض. أتمّ كلّ شيء أنّ أنت تتمّ, أو صنع أنت الذي أنت تكون. أنت يستطيع كنت [ر-فورمد] شخص مع ذلك. رغم أنّ, [ببل] تغير للجيّدة, هم لا تماما يغيّر, هم [ويلّل] [أوس] الذي هم حقّا يكونون, ما إذا هو شيء سيّئة أو شيء جيّدة. يكون مرحة, هو جزء من أنت, شيء أنت يستطيع لا يغيّر. [برووك] ديفيس مرّة يقال: "الناس يستطيع لا يغيّر. في النهاية من اليوم, أنت الذي أنت تكون وأنّ يكون على الأرجح الذي أنت يتلقّى دائما تكون. "
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you are who you choose to be.
people can choose who they love. thats not a reason for being gay. it is a sin, humans are not homosexuals by nature.
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You can't choose who you love. I know alot of people including myself, when they say "I can't believe I like this person" but they can't help it. Like Romeo and Juliet, they were destined to be together and everyone around them hated the fact that they were together because they came from different families. Wouldn't it have been easier for Juliet or Romeo to CHOOSE to love someone else, someone that their family agreed on? Yes, but because they loved eachother and couldn't help but, they decided to be with eachother. And this is for any couple whether it is boy/girl, girl/girl, or boy/boy.
People fall in love with someone for their personality not for their gender. Someone in my previous blog posted a statement: "I had my first crush on a boy when I was three. How could I have chosen to be straight when I wasn't even old enough to know anything about sexual orientation?" And I completely agree.
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My religious rebuttal
"humans are not homosexual by nature" -- exactly
i think i speak for alot of people when i say we're against it because you're made a certain way and everybody is different. we have good and bad features bot bottom line- you should be happy with yourself, and it should be good enough for you, and u shouldn't want to change it because u shouldn't have to change it.
"People can't change. At the end of the day, you are who you are and that's probably who you've always been."
*You're born a boy or a girl and u can try to change that but at the end of the day you are either that boy or that girl that you were made to be in the first place.
That's just the way i see it and probably how most people see it too- the ones against it anyways.
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"You're born a boy or a girl and u can try to change that but at the end of the day you are either that boy or that girl that you were made to be in the first place."
Exactly my point. You are born a boy or girl, I'm not saying that you aren't but what if that boy or girl is born gay? You can't change that.
"you should be happy with yourself, and it should be good enough for you, and u shouldn't want to change it because u shouldn't have to change it."
Again, exactly my point. If you are gay, why change that? You should be happy with yourself, and it doesn't matter if people think that you're a sin, they should move on and not care soo much about other people and their lives.
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for your research purposes ill go all out
"Again, exactly my point. If you are gay, why change that? You should be happy with yourself, and it doesn't matter if people think that you're a sin, they should move on and not care soo much about other people and their lives."
I meant you should be happy with what you're born with if you're made a girl or a boy deal with it you were given that much and you should appreciate it; no one is born with all the "perfect features" held to their standards but you are born with ones that are and i think the blessing of having the good ones in your life defeat the "dead weight" of the ones you're not completely happy with- .
and for the record nobody is born a homosexual
basically the sin in it is that we're born with things we may not like but it doesn't give us the right to change it.
- we're to articulate about this "sawyer" this controversy may never come to an end.
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"Humans are not homosexual by nature."
This obviously is a difference in opinions, and this will probabaly go one forever but I'll say it anyways: How do you know certain people, not all because obviously there are straight people in the world but, how do you know some people aren't born homosexual? Do you know everyone in the world? Do you know 6 billion plus people? And to defend your opinion, what makes someone turn gay? Nothing can make someone turn gay, it's who they are.
"I meant you should be happy with what you're born with if you're made a girl or a boy deal with it you were given that much and you should appreciate it."
Ok, if you are born a girl or guy, yea you should be happy with it. I'm not sure how this is related to being gay but I'll say this much. If you are born a girl (this goes for boys too) and you happen to have feelings for another girl why make yourself feel something different when they aren't you true feelings? If you are born a girl (or boy) and you happen to be gay, appreciate, take it full on. Don't hide it and pretend you are someday you're not (being straight, when gay). Be happy with what you are born with.
And to add, this bog was how I disgree with this quote: "you are who you choose to be." Now tell me this, can you choose who you love? Can you go and pick out a guy or girl and be like: "oh yea, why don't I CHOOSE to love this guy?" Does that make sense?
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LOVE
You can't help what gender your attracted to...It's not like you choose to be homosexual.your just born like that...its just the gender your attracted..you accept people by who they are not by their sexual orientation,race.gender,or religeon.
Just like how the saying goes"Don't Judge a Book by it's cover"
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The way i see it is everyone is born straight because guys are suppose to like girls and girls guys so thats why i constantly bring up the point of you're born either a girl or a boy.
and the sin is that you may want to change that but as "only humans" not god among men we dont have the right to
to be continued..
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"Can you go and pick out a guy or girl and be like: "oh yea, why don't I CHOOSE to love this guy?" Does that make sense?"
yes... if you choose "i can't choose" then you can't choose. if you choose "i can choose" then you can choose.
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How do we not have the right....
p.s.
g2g...but be right back
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"yes... if you choose "i can't choose" then you can't choose. if you choose "i can choose" then you can choose"
what? That kinda doesn't make sense. Seriously, you don't go out and be like why don't I choose to marry this guy or whatever. Like you can't force yourself to feel things that you don't feel. I'm not sure how you can see it differently...
"The way i see it is everyone is born straight because guys are suppose to like girls and girls guys."
Who says, girls is suppose to like boys, and boys are suppose to like girls? I know that most people who believe that being gay is wrong, are religious and listen to what the bible says, and I get it. You can't change the way you were raised but why can't people just come outside of it for a bit, you have to know what's right and what's wrong and discriminating people because they are gay or they have a different race is wrong. You don't judge people by anything but their personality.
My mom believes that being gay is wrong, that's how she was raised and that's how she raised me but I realize that, that's not how things are suppose to be and I know what's right.
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"The way i see it is everyone is born straight because guys are suppose to like girls and girls guys."
strongly agree!!!
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i would never judge a gay person; i'd see past it; id still know what they're doing is wrong but it wont make me discriminate anyone. People who do for religious reasons; as far as im concerned they're just contradicting themselves; trying to make these people see the sin in their choice- which there is one but at the same time they're commiting several others.
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