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So, in my previous blog, someone has mentioned their opinion stating: "you are who you choose to be". And while I do agree, I only agree to a degree. I think you decide what you do, and how you do it (and that's a part of who you are), but you sexual orientation, you don't choose. You don't wake up one day and be like "oh I'm gonna love this person" or decide to be gay. You can't choose who you love. When you find the person who you want to be with in life, then you fall in love, you can't choose their gender and you can't choose who you are. That's just what life planned out for you. And if you are gay then, well that's great. Who cares? If people don't accept you anyways, you don't need them in your life. Really the only thing that matters is that you're okay with who you are.

Edit:
Can you change who you are? No. Everything that you do, or did makes you who you are. You can be a re-formed person though. Although, peple change for the better, they don't completely change, they willl aways be who they truly are, whether it is a bad thing or a good thing. Being gay, it is a part of you, something you can't change. Brooke Davis once said: "People can't change. At the end of the day, you are who you are and that's probably who you've always been."

April 10, 2008 | 8:43 PM Comments  13 comments

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oturan -_=
April 12, 2008 | 7:33 PM
you are who you choose to be.
people can choose who they love. thats not a reason for being gay. it is a sin, humans are not homosexuals by nature.
brucasforever Sawyer
April 12, 2008 | 9:56 PM

You can't choose who you love. I know alot of people including myself, when they say "I can't believe I like this person" but they can't help it. Like Romeo and Juliet, they were destined to be together and everyone around them hated the fact that they were together because they came from different families. Wouldn't it have been easier for Juliet or Romeo to CHOOSE to love someone else, someone that their family agreed on? Yes, but because they loved eachother and couldn't help but, they decided to be with eachother. And this is for any couple whether it is boy/girl, girl/girl, or boy/boy.

People fall in love with someone for their personality not for their gender. Someone in my previous blog posted a statement: "I had my first crush on a boy when I was three. How could I have chosen to be straight when I wasn't even old enough to know anything about sexual orientation?" And I completely agree.
supersaiyan3 Darth_anakinskywalker
April 13, 2008 | 1:03 AM
My religious rebuttal
"humans are not homosexual by nature" -- exactly
i think i speak for alot of people when i say we're against it because you're made a certain way and everybody is different. we have good and bad features bot bottom line- you should be happy with yourself, and it should be good enough for you, and u shouldn't want to change it because u shouldn't have to change it.
"People can't change. At the end of the day, you are who you are and that's probably who you've always been."

*You're born a boy or a girl and u can try to change that but at the end of the day you are either that boy or that girl that you were made to be in the first place.

That's just the way i see it and probably how most people see it too- the ones against it anyways.
brucasforever Sawyer
April 13, 2008 | 12:02 PM

"You're born a boy or a girl and u can try to change that but at the end of the day you are either that boy or that girl that you were made to be in the first place."

Exactly my point. You are born a boy or girl, I'm not saying that you aren't but what if that boy or girl is born gay? You can't change that.

"you should be happy with yourself, and it should be good enough for you, and u shouldn't want to change it because u shouldn't have to change it."

Again, exactly my point. If you are gay, why change that? You should be happy with yourself, and it doesn't matter if people think that you're a sin, they should move on and not care soo much about other people and their lives.
supersaiyan3 Darth_anakinskywalker
April 13, 2008 | 5:45 PM

for your research purposes ill go all out

"Again, exactly my point. If you are gay, why change that? You should be happy with yourself, and it doesn't matter if people think that you're a sin, they should move on and not care soo much about other people and their lives."

I meant you should be happy with what you're born with if you're made a girl or a boy deal with it you were given that much and you should appreciate it; no one is born with all the "perfect features" held to their standards but you are born with ones that are and i think the blessing of having the good ones in your life defeat the "dead weight" of the ones you're not completely happy with- .

and for the record nobody is born a homosexual
basically the sin in it is that we're born with things we may not like but it doesn't give us the right to change it.

- we're to articulate about this "sawyer" this controversy may never come to an end.
brucasforever Sawyer
April 13, 2008 | 5:54 PM

"Humans are not homosexual by nature."

This obviously is a difference in opinions, and this will probabaly go one forever but I'll say it anyways: How do you know certain people, not all because obviously there are straight people in the world but, how do you know some people aren't born homosexual? Do you know everyone in the world? Do you know 6 billion plus people? And to defend your opinion, what makes someone turn gay? Nothing can make someone turn gay, it's who they are.

"I meant you should be happy with what you're born with if you're made a girl or a boy deal with it you were given that much and you should appreciate it."

Ok, if you are born a girl or guy, yea you should be happy with it. I'm not sure how this is related to being gay but I'll say this much. If you are born a girl (this goes for boys too) and you happen to have feelings for another girl why make yourself feel something different when they aren't you true feelings? If you are born a girl (or boy) and you happen to be gay, appreciate, take it full on. Don't hide it and pretend you are someday you're not (being straight, when gay). Be happy with what you are born with.

And to add, this bog was how I disgree with this quote: "you are who you choose to be." Now tell me this, can you choose who you love? Can you go and pick out a guy or girl and be like: "oh yea, why don't I CHOOSE to love this guy?" Does that make sense?
Brownyn Brownyn
April 14, 2008 | 11:46 AM
LOVE
You can't help what gender your attracted to...It's not like you choose to be homosexual.your just born like that...its just the gender your attracted..you accept people by who they are not by their sexual orientation,race.gender,or religeon.
Just like how the saying goes"Don't Judge a Book by it's cover"
supersaiyan3 Darth_anakinskywalker
April 14, 2008 | 11:52 AM

The way i see it is everyone is born straight because guys are suppose to like girls and girls guys so thats why i constantly bring up the point of you're born either a girl or a boy.
and the sin is that you may want to change that but as "only humans" not god among men we dont have the right to

to be continued..
oturan -_=
April 14, 2008 | 11:54 AM

"Can you go and pick out a guy or girl and be like: "oh yea, why don't I CHOOSE to love this guy?" Does that make sense?"
yes... if you choose "i can't choose" then you can't choose. if you choose "i can choose" then you can choose.
Brownyn Brownyn
April 14, 2008 | 11:54 AM

How do we not have the right....
p.s.
g2g...but be right back
brucasforever Sawyer
April 14, 2008 | 7:11 PM

"yes... if you choose "i can't choose" then you can't choose. if you choose "i can choose" then you can choose"

what? That kinda doesn't make sense. Seriously, you don't go out and be like why don't I choose to marry this guy or whatever. Like you can't force yourself to feel things that you don't feel. I'm not sure how you can see it differently...

"The way i see it is everyone is born straight because guys are suppose to like girls and girls guys."

Who says, girls is suppose to like boys, and boys are suppose to like girls? I know that most people who believe that being gay is wrong, are religious and listen to what the bible says, and I get it. You can't change the way you were raised but why can't people just come outside of it for a bit, you have to know what's right and what's wrong and discriminating people because they are gay or they have a different race is wrong. You don't judge people by anything but their personality.

My mom believes that being gay is wrong, that's how she was raised and that's how she raised me but I realize that, that's not how things are suppose to be and I know what's right.
oturan -_=
April 15, 2008 | 9:00 AM

"The way i see it is everyone is born straight because guys are suppose to like girls and girls guys."
strongly agree!!!
supersaiyan3 Darth_anakinskywalker
April 15, 2008 | 9:25 AM

i would never judge a gay person; i'd see past it; id still know what they're doing is wrong but it wont make me discriminate anyone. People who do for religious reasons; as far as im concerned they're just contradicting themselves; trying to make these people see the sin in their choice- which there is one but at the same time they're commiting several others.
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